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Wednesday, September 17, 2014

What I've Been Up to Wednesday

You may have noticed that I have been pretty silent around these parts recently.. sorry for that!  Life has just been a bit crazy for me and honestly blogging is what has had to take a back burner.  As much as I LOVE blogging, sometimes something has to go, and well this was what had to go these past few weeks.  Since the beginning of August I have had something going on almost every weekend and while it has been a TON of fun, it has also been super exhausting.  What little time I do have I have been focusing on job searching and doing stuff for my "promotion" of sorts at work.

Those of you who know me know that I have been bartending while looking for a more career oriented job in the real world.  Well last month I was offered a position at another restaurant starting as a bartender, then after a few months moving into a key hourly shift supervisor position, and then hopefully within a year moving to management.  After talking with the GM at my current restaurant about it he said that he could get me doing key hourly shifts in the next month and would get me started on management training as soon as possible.  So I politely declined the other offer and here I am still at my old restaurant working crazy hours both bartending and as key hourly.  The hours have been crazy... some days I have worked from 8am-11pm which is CRAZY, but hey, I am making it work for now!

PS, Sorry in advance for the photo dump... but they say a picture is worth 1000 words and some of these pics say mountains about what I have been up to!

Besides being crazy at work, I have also been all over the place on the weekends trying to enjoy every little bit of summer possible before my favorite season FALL starts.  The craziness began in the beginning of August with our annual trip to Lake Wallenpaupack with friends.  We have been to the Lake the past few years and it is always a great time.  This past year was NO exception.  The weekend was filled with lots of booze, boating and overall just enjoying ourselves!








After a relaxing weekend at the Lake it was time to head to VA Beach to support my girl AF in the next round of bar champs!  We had a great time in VA... lots of laughs and good times had by all!







Next it was off to NYC for JR's bachelorette party.  JR is one of my old co-workers and I am so excited for her wedding in October.  JR and her fiance have been together for just as long as M and I had been together before getting married so it makes their wedding extra special.  My weekend in NYC was spent seeing Les Mis on Broadway followed by a fun night out at Culture Club!






The following weekend we stayed close to home and went to a BBQ at one of my co-workers houses.  We had a FABULOUS time filled with lots of good food, good beer and of course TEQUILA!!!!!!














The following weekend M and I headed to NJ to celebrate my mom's birthday and to help my parents throw a Labor Day Weekend BBQ.  We had a such a fabulous time in NJ and I was so sad that we had to come back early on Sunday morning so that I could work all day long!








This past weekend we FINALLY had a weekend at home.  I had so many ideas as to what I wanted to do, but of course it rained all Saturday so we couldn't do the fun fall activities I had planned.  Instead we went and got beer for our keg-o-rater... because well that is what normal married people do on their days off! 

After a weekend off we are back to our crazy schedules until sometime in November.  As much as being crazy, busy stinks... I wouldn't have it any other way! 

 Have you been up to anything super fun recently?

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Book Review... The Confession.... PLUS Literary Junkies time!!!!!

Today I am taking a break from my regularly scheduled Delicious Dish Tuesday to bring to you my 2nd ever Literary Junkies book post.  I have so enjoyed being a part of another book club, especially one that is full of bloggers like myself.  This month we read The Wife, the Maid, and the Mistress by Ariel Lawhon and I am super excited for the Twitter chat tomorrow as this month the author is actually joining us!

During my last Literary Junkies post I had mentioned that I had started reading The Confession by Robert Whitlow, so I figure that it is only fitting that I do a book review on it for my 2nd ever Literary Junkies post.

The Confession appealed to me because it was a book where the main character, Holt Douglas is an Assistant D.A. and during most of my legal education I clerked at the Attorney General's Office in Delaware working with the Deputy Attorney Generals prosecuting various adults and juveniles.  While I spent my time mostly prosecuting juveniles, Holt spends his days prosecuting all types of criminals.

One day Holt mysteriously finds an old file on his desk related to a case that had been closed many years ago regarding the "suicide" of Rex Meredith.  After looking at the bare bones file Holt begins to suspect that it was not a suicide after all and begins looking in to the case.  While investigating he engages the help of Trish, a deputy sheriff who has helped him with many cases involving parents who are behind on their child support.  With Trish's help the two begin to suspect that more really did happen as when wind of the investigation gets out Trish's boss and some others within the Sheriff's Department ask Trish to keep an eye on Holt and report back to them with developments on his case.

As Holt spends more time with Trish he eventually lets her in on the secret as to why he became an Assistant D.A.... that he had been following the dreams of his best friend who was killed in a car crash.  The worst part about the crash was that Holt was driving the car and he was drunk at the time... although he was more sober than Calico... but he was still drunk.  When questioned by the police, Holt tells them that Calico was the one driving and Holt is able to move on with his life.  While moving on Holt is saddled with the guilt of killing his best friend and wants to do everything in his power to make things right.

Trish can't look at Holt after she learns his secret as her father was killed in a car accident involving a drunk driver and her mother was left paralyzed after the same accident.  Trish and Holt both end up turning to God to deal with the pain that they are both going through.

I really enjoyed this book not only because of the legal aspect to it but because it really held my attention. I honestly did not see the end coming and love that the book threw me for a little bit of a loop.  I find a lot of mystery books to be pretty predictable, so the fact that this one left me shocked was pretty awesome.  I also love that it was a pretty quick and easy read... it was one of those books that I really didn't want to put down.

It warmed my heart that both Trish and eventually Holt had a great relationship with God and used church to help them both through a tough time.  I enjoyed getting to see the role that the church played in both of their lives and how they were able to gain strength to do the right thing.

Now on the the Literary Junkies part of the post....

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1. What are you reading right now? Tell us about it.
Right now I am reading The Fault in Our Stars by John Green.  I know I am late getting on the train of reading this book and I am actually reading it for my Chi Omega book club that is meeting this upcoming weekend.  I have been really excited to read this as I really want to see the movie, but I am not one to see a movie before I read a book.  I have heard mixed reviews on this book and so far am not quite sure how I feel about it.  But I will be sure to let you all know how it turned out soon!

2. There are a ton of movies coming out soon that were based off of books.  Are there any that you're particularly excited to see?
As crazy as this sounds I am most excited about Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day coming out as a movie.  I used to LOVE that book as a kid and I really can't wait to see how they turned it into a movie!

3. With fall finally here for some of us, are there any books that you're particularly looking forward to reading in the season of big sweaters, blankets and hot chocolate?
Honestly there are so many books that I want to read right now and any of them are perfect for reading in the fall.  I love nothing more than enjoying a book with a cup of warm apple cider during the fall.  I still really want to read Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn and I would also like to read Outlander by Diana Gabalon as I have recently become obsessed with the TV series and think reading the book would be awesome!

4. We only have 3.5 months left of 2014.  Did you participate in any reading challenges? How are you doing?
Unfortunately I didn't get involved in any reading challenges this year as I didn't hear about a few of them until they were already part way over.  I am hoping to get more involved next year!

5. What has been the best book you have read so far this year?
I honestly think that The Book Theif was probably my favorite book that I have read this past year.  I had a really hard time getting into it, but once I did I couldn't put it down.  I still have yet to see the movie which is the reason why I wanted to read the book, BUT I will get there one of these days.

Have you read anything good recently?


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Thursday, September 11, 2014

#tbt... Home Sweet Home

Today's #tbt post is going to  be a little bit different in that I am not only going to throw it back with some pictures of my Home Sweet Home, but I am going to throw it back to the last couple of posts I wrote regarding September 11th (you can read them here and here).

  
Growing up in the suburbs of NYC, September 11th isn't just some abstract concept to me where I saw everything happening on TV, but rather I lived it.  I lived through the fear of my school being in lock down mode and not knowing what was happening at first.  I lived through the fear of my fellow classmates when they couldn't get in touch with their parents who worked in and around NYC.  I lived through the fear of teachers who couldn't reach their spouses who working in and around NYC.  But I also lived through the stories where someone's Mom didn't make it to work in Tower 2 on time because she decided to get her nails done before work.  Or the story of someone's dad who missed his train and didn't make it in on time.  I lived the horror of all of that and it still doesn't get any easier thinking about it when this day rolls around every year.


As many of you probably have guessed from the title of my blog, I am from the great state of New Jersey.  I was born and raised in Northern New Jersey in the suburbs of NYC.  I got the great pleasure of being from New Jersey with the convenience of being able to go into NYC pretty much whenever I wanted.  Today I am going to throw it back to some of the good times I have had in Jersey over the years... especially since I have moved to the suburbs of Philly.



This is actually from Christmas break 2003... our first time all getting together after we had left for college
This is actually I believe from my Junior year before Chris' senior prom at Don Bosco








One of my favorite things about going to NJ at Christmas time is being able to use my creativity to set up the Snow Village for my parents
Grammy's House at Christmas



One of the best things about NJ is getting to spend time with my parents... here we are celebrating M and my engagement
Little brother couldn't make it... but never fear... Flat H was there instead!
Lovely ladies of my family at my Bridal Shower in NJ
What does Home Sweet Home mean to you?



Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Delicious Dish Tuesday... Elizabeth's Infamous Sangria!

Blogging has definitely been on the back burner for me these past couple of weeks as life has been completely crazy with lots of things going on.  That being said, what better way to get back into the swing of blogging than participating in one of my favorite link-ups!  That's right... I am back with you today to participate in Delicious Dish Tuesday sponsored by... Mary at Eat, Drink & Be Mary, Amanda at Coping with Frugality and Alesha at Full Time Mama.  As a welcome back to blogging I have finally decided to share with you all my infamous Sangria recipe!  I learned how to make this sangria when I was studying abroad in Granada, Spain and it is ALWAYS a hit.  In fact I went to a BBQ at my parents' house a few weeks ago where my mom's friends specifically requested it.  Now, this recipe might not make it taste exactly the same as mine as I don't actually measure anything out when I make the sangria, but this is definitely my best guess as to the measurements!



Elizabeth's Infamous Sangria

Ingredients:
1 bottle of red wine (I used J. Lohr Cabernet this past time... but really any red wine will do)
2/3 c. Bacardi Limon
2/3 c. Cointreau (or any other orange flavored liquor)
1/3 c. Brandy
1/2 c. sugar
Half of a 2L Bottle of Ginger Ale
Various Fruits, cut into pieces (this time I used lemons, limes, oranges, apples and strawberries)


Directions:
1. Cut fruit into small pieces and throw into a big pitcher.
I always cut extra and put it into a container so that if I need to make another pitcher or people eat the fruit I don't have to spend more time cutting it... but that is just me
2. Add wine and liquors to the pitcher.
3. Add sugar and mix all together.
4. Top with Ginger Ale
5. Enjoy!


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