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Monday, January 19, 2015

In Our 30s and Still Know How to Have Fun

This weekend was my last weekend of free time because starting tomorrow I don't have a day off from work until next Wednesday.  Now some of you may be thinking that isn't so bad, but let me tell you... working 8 days straight in a restaurant is no picnic.  Granted some of the shifts are manager shifts while others are bartending shifts, but in general it is just exhausting being in the restaurant business.  So with limited time off this weekend I was so excited that we were able to spend some of it going out for our good friend JC's 35th birthday.

We haven't been friends with JC all that long... but it feels like we have been friends with him and his wife forever. His wife R is pretty much my bff from law school and my friendship with her is pretty much the only law school friendship that I maintained after graduating.  Mark and I are so blessed to have them in our lives and we were thrilled to be there to celebrate J's 35th with him!!

RC & JC
Law School BFFs
We had a lovely dinner for J at Pietro's Prime in West Chester... a restaurant Mark and I happened to have recently said that we wanted to try out.  I had heard that they had fantastic martinis which made me happy and then they are known for their steaks which I obviously knew would make Mark happy. We had the best time and it was a perfect Saturday night out!! For me it was awesome because it finally seemed to sink in for me that even though I am now 30, it doesn't mean that I can't have fun!

Loving having a Saturday Night Out together!!
Delicious Dirty Martini
My Dinner Versus
Hubby's Dinner
Jim's Birthday Cake
Ladies taking some shots!!
Everyone after dinner
The Table
On the subject of being in my 30s, it just occurred to me that I never posted about MY 30th birthday.  My actually 30th was pretty uneventful... Mark and I were out at his family's house for Thanksgiving and it snowed... and we drank margaritas.. and that was pretty much it.

A Very Snowy Birthday
Birthday Margaritas!!
BUT the Monday before my actual birthday I had a wonderful surprise dinner thrown for me by one of my best gals, EO.  I had told her a while back that I didn't want to do anything for my birthday because any time I try to plan something for myself it always turns out horribly wrong, meaning I usually end up in tears.  I didn't want to start my 30s off that way so I just decided we weren't going to do anything.  Then on Sunday when we were grocery shopping Mark told me he was going to take me out for dinner on Monday to celebrate my birthday a little early since we were going to be with his family on my actual birthday.  We did a little shopping and then headed to Hibachi for dinner.  When we got inside I was shocked to see a bunch of my friends just chilling at the bar... we were 10 minutes early... so they weren't quite expecting me yet and I made it there before some of my friends... but it wouldn't be me if I weren't early for my own surprise party!

We had such a fun time at dinner... it was my first time EVER at a Hibachi place!! It was great to have so many of my favorite people in one place at the same time because let's just say that with my crazy work schedule, along with the work schedules of all of my friends, it is almost impossible to get us all together at the same time... so when I say that I was so excited that we were all able to hang out it is an understatement.


Flaming Volcano Drink for my 30th



Some of the best friends a girl could ask for out to celebrate my 30th Birthday!!
I am seriously so blessed to have so many wonderful friends in my life and I am hoping that in 2015 I will be able to focus on my friendships and make sure that all of my friends know how much they mean to me.

Have you ever had a hard time turning a specific age? Did you ever realize that age doesn't matter, it is what you are doing with your life and who you are spending it with that really matters?

Today I am also linking up with Krista at The Quinntessential Mommy for her Meet Up Monday link-up... head over to her blog and check out some of the amazing bloggers who have linked up with her for this party!!


Monday, January 5, 2015

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

If you read my blog at all last week, you know that Christmas is one of my favorite times of the year.  Fall may be my favorite season, but Christmas is just well Christmas.  I love all the decorations (especially getting to decorate our home), I love Christmas lights outside, I love sending and receiving Christmas cards, I love baking all of my great-grandma's Christmas cookies (as well as some of Mark's family cookie recipes), and I love that Christmas means getting to spend a bunch of time with family.

This year it was time for Christmas in NJ with my family (we alternate which family we are with for the holidays, and this year was a Jersey Christmas).  Christmas in Jersey usually means spending Christmas Eve at my Grammy's house and then Christmas Day is at my parents house.  This year we did things a little differently and had Grammy over to our house Christmas Eve and even had her spend the night so that she was already at our house for Christmas morning.  Christmas Eve was a very low key night... we got our traditional Rudy's pizza and just hung out as a family watching Christmas movies on TV.

Tree at my Grammy's House
Santa has a bunch of presents for us
Love how my Grammy's house looks at Christmas
Tree at my parents house

Christmas morning we were all up fairly early.  Everyone was ready to open presents, but as usual we had to wait for my little brother to get his act together.  And by get his act together I mean we had to wait for him to go out to his car, get the presents out, and wrap them to put under the tree.  It wouldn't be a holiday with my family if my little brother wasn't unprepared in some way, shape or form.  Despite waiting for him to get his act together we had a wonderful Christmas morning as a family.  Everyone loved their gifts and we had a lot of laughs and good times while opening them all.  The best moment of all was probably when my brother was opening up everything for his new tool box and as he was cutting into the packaging for the stud finder and my dad was going "Don't cut the DVD that came with it" my brother just kept cutting and of course cut right through the DVD.  Of course we all got quite a few laughs out of that, because well it is definitely something my brother would do.



Grammy & Me... she was the only one who wanted to put a hat on with me early in the AM

The DVD that my little bro managed to cut through



After presents on Christmas morning we always have a bacon and egg breakfast before Grammy goes home and we all just chill out and relax until dinner.  This year before dinner my Aunt came over and we had a great time exchanging gifts with her as well.  It was nice to have her over as it doesn't seem like our family is able to get together too often with all of us there.



Traditional Christmas picture with 2 of my favorite guys... my brother and my hubby
Friday morning after breakfast Mark and I headed off to Central Pennsylvania for Christmas Part 2 with his family.  Mark's family usually does presents on Christmas Eve after a dinner of shrimp and homemade french fries.  So on Friday night we had a belated Christmas Eve celebration with Mark's mom, her fiance, and his grandparents.  After a delicious dinner we headed downstairs to exchange presents.  I think one of the best moments of opening presents with Mark's family was how excited his Grammy got about the framed wedding pictures that we gave her this year.  As soon as she opened them she said "I don't need any more presents this year, this was all I wanted."  It made us feel so good to know that something so little and thoughtful made her so happy.

Millerstown Christmas Tree
Grammy D excited about her wedding picture



Saturday we had a typical Christmas dinner with Mark's family and just spent the day enjoying each other's company.  We tried to go visit a winery with Mark's mom, but for some reason they closed early so we weren't able to go.  BUT we still had a fun drive out of it and on the way home hit up the Wine store to find a couple of new bottles of wine to try out.

Hubby "impatiently" waiting for dinner
Sure did get this bottle of wine because it was called "Love my Goat"
Sunday morning meant church with Mark's family before heading home so that I could go to work on Sunday.  The holiday celebrations with the family never seem to last long enough and I am always left wishing that we had more time with our families.

After Christmas with the families we had a few days of work each before heading to on of our best friend's houses to celebrate New Year's Eve.  This year was probably one of the best NYE celebrations I have had in a long time because a) I wasn't working (woohoo!!) and b) it was just a low key, fun time with friends.  I worked on Wednesday morning and after work we headed to ML's house for dinner and drinking with friends.  ML cooked us a lovely dinner and after dinner we settled down for some good beer, good conversation and of course beer pong.  The night was met with many laughs and overall we had a fantastic time.  We were all wide awake at midnight and had some delicious disgusting champagne before switching back to beer to finish off the night.  We were all so proud of ourselves because although we are all almost all in our 30s, we managed to stay up until 2am!  Go us!!

Our gracious NYE host cooking us dinner




The NYE Crew
So much fun ringing in the New Year with some amazing friends
We had a wonderful end to 2014 and the start to 2015 was amazing, so here is hoping that 2015 is an even better year that 2014 was!!

How was your holiday season?